blame me?blame you?blame who?

It's easy to find fault in things--far too easy for most of us.Well,almost all of us has the attitude of searching for other's faults no matter whether it plays big or tiny role in our life. This is obviously a statement,not a question. Well,not agree with me? Then,who's the one that get angry when he/she falls because of the slippery floor,or say 'shi*!' when he/she get stucked in a traffic jammed or talks behind his/her friend when his/her friend did something wrong or if someone just cooked us dinner and used a bit too much salt, what's the first thing we notice when we put the food into our mouths? Yes,IMHO these are all the action of what i call 'fault-finding'

Ever wonder why i choose this topic?I wonder why too=P.Actually,lately,i've been reading,seeing and watching the act of fault-finding(i'm not exceptional) though maybe not many people realize it.At school,students always talk bad about their teachers.'Ow,she's borink', is a simple example that can be categorized as 'fault-finding'. Many will say that it's the truth but dear,why don't you look in the bigger picture?If she's borink,then you'll have to study by yourself and it's proven that by studying with your own effort,it'll be much more effective.And by the way,why don't you just speak up your view? Isn't that better so that the teacher can improve herself?

Perhaps it's because it is simply easier to accept a world where everyone else is wrong than it is to accept a world where you will never be perfect and you have to put in an effort to your behaviour (even though behaviour becomes as easy as any habit if you keep at it).And i think the people who find faults in others are actually seeing a mirror Image of them selves in that opposite person,and the only reason they are doing this is because they are unaware that life is showing them their own image in someone else's face .

Well,i'm convinced that if you want to see the good side of something,you will find it even in the worst thing on Earth but if you want to see the bad side ,you will find it even in the best thing one could imagine.

So,choose wisely!

Do not look for faults in others,
but look for faults in yourself,
and purge them like bad blood.